This Words of Wisdom video from life coach and inspirational speaker Lisa Nichols is a must watch!
I’ve written before about not dimming your light for anyone and how it only hurts in the long run. Lisa speaks more on this subject, letting us know straight up that as we grow, other people aren’t going to be feeling it. “As your light gets brighter, you’re going to disrupt some people,” Lisa stated.
Why? People have insecurities and can be small minded. So they may shut down your ideas or vision, sometimes because of that, or even sometimes out of what they believe to be love and concern. Don’t be mad at them, and definitely don’t hold yourself back because of other people’s insecurities and limited minds.
Please believe, you have something good to offer this world. But you can’t do that if you’re out here constantly being swayed by what other people think. Instead, walk strong and confident in who you were meant to be! “You just look at them and say, “Well, I’m not going to dim my light. I’m just going to hand you some shades!” Preach, Lisa!
“When you’re happy like a fool, let it take you over
When everything is out, you gotta take it in…”
OneRepublic‘s “Good Life” is a great Inspirational Jam to boost your mood this morning!
This track is all about appreciation for life and making the most of yours while you’re here! It could be by spending time with your family and friends, traveling, going out on the town, etc. What matters most is that you make time to enjoy the life you’ve been blessed with. Yes, I believe you should be about your grind, but there definitely has to be balance.
With this song, OneRepublic also reminded me that, even when life isn’t completely perfect, it could still be a whole lot worse. So what do we really have to complain about? I’m committed to making the most out of my days, even when they don’t go exactly like I planned. How about y’all?
To start the week, here’s a #MondayMotivation quote from actress Octavia Spencer. I really hope it resonates with you guys this week and beyond!
To be honest, I struggle so much with comparison, and it really the ultimate thief of joy. I often look at the achievements of past schoolmates, friends, and other people I follow on social media, and feel…inadequate. Like I’m not doing enough. Even though I’m doing pretty well myself.
I’ve concluded that comparison really is the devil. It takes us out of focus and makes us feel like we aren’t doing enough simply based off of what someone else has posted or shared. And, like Octavia stated, it throws us off from finding our own success because we’re so worried about not being on the same levels of others.
I’ve realized that each of us has our own individual journeys, and not everyone moves at the same speed or does the same things. And that’s okay. Comparing yourself to others ultimately just ends up hurting you in the end. So it’s better to just focus on what you have and what you’re doing. You’ll definitely be happier that way.
I was so proud of my little sis Alexis last year as she stepped on the field for Old Dominion University‘s Homecoming. After applying with other hopefuls, getting to the interviewing stage, and going through the campaign process, she managed to make it onto to ODU’s 2017 homecoming court. A big feat for her senior year!
I was proud of her beyond just making the court, because I realized that a reason she was a part of it was because of the different organizations she’s involved in at ODU, on top of maintaining a great GPA in her psychology classes. Even though she didn’t become a “Royal Monarch,” she’s still a queen to me. She may not have won the crown, but it took a lot of courage to go out for this, especially at a school with almost 20,000 undergrads. And she looked amazing!
Throughout her four years at ODU, I would advise Lex on how important it was to not just be all about school. I told her that she should get out, meet new people, and get involved, which can be daunting to do at a huge school especially. But she did anyway, stepping outside of her comfort zone and blossoming into a strong young adult that turned 22 today!
Surprised that my own baby sis would be reteaching me some life lessons LOL, but she’s been reminding me of a lot over these past few years, like watching what I say. Looking at her that day at ODU, it was a stark reminder of how important is step out of your comfort zone and try new things, even when you really don’t know how they’re going to pan out.
Obviously, comfort zones are nice and cozy. Doing the same old things that we’re relaxed in doing is safe and secure. But the problem is that we never grow by doing the same old things over and over. We never push our limits or strengthen our skills and mindsets by staying where it’s comfortable all the time. Sure, we’re safe, but we also tend to remain stuck in the same spot.
Case in point, I just took on a new writing project that is quite different than anything I’ve done before. It’s making me a little anxious, to be honest, but I’m trying to push myself outside of my limits so that I can continue to grow as a writer. You ultimately get better and stronger by pushing yourself to do more than you thought you ever could.
As I challenge myself, I challenge all of you to go after that new job. To take on that new project. To try your hand at something you’re curious about but never thought you would be able to do. I challenge you to go outside of your comfort zone, and see where you end up!
What was a time where you had to step outside of what you knew? How did it pan out? Let me know in the comments!