I was talking to a friend a while ago about why I choose to do a lot of things solo. This video really explains it. Waiting on other people to accept your invite to events or pay down on that trip or concert you really wanted to go to will have you all stuck in the house doing nothing. Start small, but start doing some things solo dolo to get used to doing things by yourself. That way, when people flake on you, you’re more comfortable moving ahead with your plans. I promise it’s worth it.